Dont Blame Him The Signs Were There

Don't Blame Him is a book about me taking responsibility for the decision that I made; to marry a man that I knew was unfaithful to me, all because I wanted to get my life right with God but did not want to stop having sex. The purpose for Don't Blame Him, "The Signs Were There," is to stop women from trying to change a man; especially when he is showing you who he is while you are in the dating stage. It becomes real once you say I do. Marriage is not just a piece of paper. It is a covenant between you, your spouse, and God. And unless you are willing to look past the faults of the other person and endure till the end, don't make that step.We are a product of our choices. Sometimes we make the wrong choices because we do not understand that we deserve the best. The choices that we make lead us to some difficult lessons to endure.God has a plan for us. He had an intent when he created us and put us in whatever position that we occupy today. When the purpose of a thing is unknown, abuse is inevitable.This is the reason why most women are victims of one form of abuse or the other. I am glad to inform you that no matter how bad the past has been, there is a chance to make things right. It doesn't matter how broken or burnt you have gotten because of your decisions; there is always a new start for you.